assalamualaikum :)
in this lovely day, I would like to talk about SECOND CHANCE. do you people have any idea on how important is the second chance to every individual? some of us might think that it is just a simple chance that can be broke again and again and again.
but then, do you ever realise that it is not easy for some people to give another chance to you after the second chance? second chance mean people have faith on you, by believing that you wouldn't repeat the same mistake that you've done?
people, please appreciate the second chance given to you. I have a friend of mine that keep on giving chance to the one that she loves. but somehow, does that guy knows how to appreciate it? nope. so, bear in your mind people, stop giving chances to people that don't deserve it.
now, let's talk abut MOVE ON. it just that, why my friends cannot move on from their past love? in Islam, we have the terms of "redha". it means accept what had happened with open heart. if you redha, insyaAllah Allah will give you the better one. He's the best planner. all we could do is just plan and He's the one that going to make it happen or not. have faith. you had tried your best, you put on your effort, all out, just to keep the plan going. but what Allah shows you? He shows you that the guy is not the one.
aku bukan apa lah kan, aku fed up jugak sebenarnya orang yang tak move on nie. aku faham sakit dia. sebab aku pun pernah alami. but then, kalau siang malam kau merungut benda yang sama kat aku tanpa perkembangan, berbulu jugak telinga aku mendengar. seolah kau tak percaya dengan ketentuan Tuhan. kalau betul partner kau sayangkan kau, dia pun akan berusaha untuk kau. tapi mana? dah kau je 24 hours nak berusaha tak boleh jugak.
sometimes, kita kena give up untuk satu pintu yang tertutup. sebab banyak lagi pintu yang terbukak. kalau kau asyik nak pandang pintu yang tertutup je, sampai bila-bila pun kau takkan jumpa kebahagiaan. kau nak seksa diri kau sebab seseorang yang hanya sekadar boyfriend? kalau suami aku still terima okay?
it just that, kau tak pernah give up pun untuk dia. cuma dia je yang tak berjuang sekali dengan kau, dan dah sampai masanya untuk kau undur diri. undur diri bukannya erti kau dah kalah. undur diri untuk cari kebahagiaan sendiri. wake up. jangan jadi bodoh sebab cinta. tak perlu menagih kasih, menagih simpati and whatnot. have some pride, have some ego for the sake of yourself.
jangan jadi buta sebab cinta. kumbang bukan seekor. kau kat sini fikir dia bagai nak rak, dia kat sana bergembira bahagia tanpa kau sebab bebas. ada tak kau terfikir pasal tu? kau tak rasa diri kau bodoh ke kena macam tu? show him that you are happier without him and thus that could make he feels like a loser.
kau tak rugi pun hilang dia, sebab kau hilang manusia yang tak menghargai kau. kau patut bersyukur kau hilang dia sekarang sebelum terlambat (kahwin, dah beranak-pinak lagi susah) sebab perancangan Tuhan tu terbaik. have faith. dia yang rugi hilang kau sebab dia hilang orang yang sayangkan dia sepenuh hati dan menghargai dia seadanya, terima baik buruk dia and segalanya. orang macam kau dalam hidup dia cuma akan datang sekali seumur hidup.
so, bukak mata kau luas-luas. tutup buku lama, bukak buku baru. dia tak layak untuk dapat chance lagi dari kau sebab kau bagi peluang kat dia lebih dari dua kali okay? bina hidup baru. tutupkan hati untuk dia. bukakan untuk orang lain. ada yang lebih baik tengah menanti kau. jangan sebab seorang, kau hilang kepercayaan kepada semua lelaki. it's not worth it. ingat lah, PLEASE MOVE ON FOR THE SAKE OF YOURSELF.
okbye. *mood bengang sebab asyik kena jadi doktor love orang yang meroyan 24/7 tak makan saman*
